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The peacekeeper…

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She was born a peacekeeper, but not a born peacekeeper. She was simply handed this role without any experience, talent or other qualifications for the job. From the time she was a toddler, she found herself trapped between her mother and father and their issues, including arguments and disagreements. A common theme for their disagreements involved the manner in which to reprimand and deal out punishment for inappropriate behavior between her brothers and sisters and of course, herself. Did her peacekeeping role involve negotiating between the separate parties, including her parents, and getting them to sit down and talk things through rationally? No. Did this involve weighing in with her opinion on how things should be handled? No. Her peacekeeping role involved keeping quiet when she witnessed an injustice, or an injustice was dealt her. Her peacekeeping role involved maneuvering behind the scenes to keep the other shoe from dropping. She lived her entire childhood trying to fl...